Service of others is the hallway to true tenderness toward our hearts and world's outcasts. That is the writer of all things original script and guidance. Our judgement and our feeling of superiority is precisely the wrong way. It kills our soul deep inside. It leads us to the pain I have been and will continue to feel until I learn completely.
For me that is true tenderness for the oppressors. I need to understand them and feel their pain for like all we are both the oppressors and the oppressed. I am a slow learner please forgive me. It is the outcasts of our heart who are our salvation. Tender connection and deep love with them that heal us not them. But maybe even both.
When we unknowingly think we are good and noble in our desire to help them but they help us and show us who we are supposed to be and push us in that direction. When we defend his words playing in our heart when we grow and learn while thinking we are teaching but we are learning.
Thank you for being my teacher and my brother!
Thank you for showing me how he wants me to change!
I am truly and will forever be in your debt. I know you sacrificed and suffered to shine with his obvious grace and wisdom and even suffered because of my failure. You are a gift to me along with my lovely wife and soul mate.